The first thing I do when I step onto the ship is head straight to the muster station. It is a non-negotiable part of the process, and it is something I have learned the hard way over the years. The drill is not glamorous, but it is essential for safety and it sets the tone for the rest of the cruise. Once it is done, I can relax and start enjoying the vacation.

After the muster station, I make a beeline for the main dining room. Getting there early guarantees a good spot. I always choose a table by the window if I can, so I can watch the ocean as I settle into vacation mode. If I am alone, I ask for a table by myself rather than getting seated with another couple or family, which feels awkward. If I am with a friend or family member, I look for a nice two-seater by a window — then I can request that exact table every single night.

The buffet is always an option, but I prefer to skip it on the first day and explore other dining venues instead. I will grab lunch somewhere outside the main buffet area — a casual cafe or a quieter spot by the pool. Most ships have free dining options scattered around the ship: small cafes, burger shops, pizza windows, and more. On Royal Caribbean, that might mean Loco Fresh, a Mexican spot with nachos, burritos, rice, beans, and more.

After lunch, it is time to head to my room. There is a certain joy in walking into a freshly made-up room that is all mine, even if just for a few days. The first thing I do is check out the layout, the view, and the overall vibe. If I am lucky, I have scored a balcony room, and I am already dreaming of morning coffee with a view. The room is my personal space to unwind and get into cruise mode.

Once I have dropped my bags, I immediately start arranging the room to feel like home. I know exactly where everything should go based on years of practice — my toiletries, my books, anything else I need for the trip. Whether it is adjusting the pillows, setting up a cozy corner by the window, or unpacking my personal items, it is all about creating an environment that feels just right. It is my little sanctuary for the next few days.

Before I even think about relaxing, I give the room a quick wipe-down with Clorox wipes. It is not about being overly obsessive; it is more about feeling at ease in my environment. I focus on the high-touch spots — the desk, the light switches, the remote. It is a simple step, but it makes a real difference in how I feel once I start settling in.

It might sound a bit extreme, but I always bring my own sheets to put on the bed. I am a stickler for comfort, and using my own makes the whole room feel more like home. I am particular about the texture, the softness, the fit. It is a small step, but it is one of those things that makes the biggest difference when it comes to getting cozy. Once the sheets are on, I feel like I have truly settled in.

After making the bed, it is time to unpack. I am not one to leave my suitcase lying around for days, so I immediately start hanging up my clothes and organizing everything. It is much easier to find what I need when everything is in its place. Hanging clothes, folding items, tucking away shoes and accessories — it is all part of the process. I also bring extra foldable hangers, since most cabins only give you a handful.

By now, I am fully settled in and ready to enjoy the highlight of the day: dinner in the main dining room. I love the whole experience — the atmosphere, the variety of dishes, the chance to unwind after a day of exploration. There is always something exciting about the first dinner on board, and I take my time savoring each course. It is always a moment to reflect on the start of the trip and get excited for what is ahead.

After a delicious dinner, I make sure to end the night with a show. Whether it is a Broadway-style performance, a comedian, or live music, it is the perfect way to round out the evening. I love that feeling of sitting back, surrounded by people, watching an incredible performance, and just soaking in the atmosphere. After that, I am ready to head back to my room, get comfortable, and unwind for the night — recharged and excited for another day at sea.